About
Hi, I’m Dill
Accredited Divorce Coach with a Legal and Educational Background
I help men and women move through divorce with clarity, strength and dignity, because I’ve lived it, studied it, and guided countless people through it.
Why I Do This Work
I am a fully accredited Divorce and Break-Up Coach, a qualified Teacher, and a former Solicitor.
My unique blend of legal insight, educational structure and lived experience allows me to support clients through one of the most emotionally challenging periods of their lives, with calm, clarity and compassion.
My journey into coaching began long before I ever trained for it.
It began with my own difficult marriage and divorce.
I married in 1999 and, very early on, I realised the relationship was not right for me. Coming from an Indian/Sikh community, I faced cultural expectations, judgement and pressure to stay, even when my emotional wellbeing was deteriorating. As the years went on, the marriage became increasingly high conflict, and the environment became mentally, emotionally and even physically unsafe.
Despite trying everything to make it work, I reached a point where leaving became the only option to protect myself and my children.
The road that followed was long and painful.
My divorce was granted on the basis of unreasonable behaviour, yet the financial proceedings continued for six more years. I navigated delays, non-compliance, court hearings, and constant conflict. Through it all, I learned how essential it is to have emotional tools, clarity, and a support system that truly understands what you’re facing.
I eventually gained closure, and found peace, hope and joy again. I rebuilt a life I love, with my three wonderful children and a partner who treats me with kindness and respect.
This experience is what drives me today.
Why I’m Different
My background allows me to offer something rare in the divorce-support world:
Emotional Support + Legal Awareness + Structured, Practical Guidance
My legal background
helps you understand processes more clearly and communicate more confidently with your solicitor, saving time, stress and unnecessary costs.
My teaching background
means I structure our sessions with clarity, tools and techniques you can actually use.
My lived experience
means I truly understand the emotional load, the fear, the overwhelm, and the uncertainty.
As a coach
I focus on helping you move forward, not stay stuck in the story.
Emotional Support + Legal Awareness + Structured, Practical Guidance
How I Support You
I walk beside you through the entire process, offering structured guidance during sessions, and compassionate support outside of them when urgent situations arise.
People often come to me when they feel:
Together, we work through:
My Promise to You
I am not here to judge you.
I am here to support you, strengthen you and help you move through this period with dignity, clarity and confidence.
You don’t have to walk this path alone.
